Monday, 20 June 2016

Sexual Health Note 1.

I'd like to take a moment to address the matter of unsafe sex practices within the companionship industry and my unwavering stance on such behaviour. 

As an independent I receive requests for BBFS (unprotected vaginal penetration) on a near daily basis, and usually I don't mind it too much because it helps me to weed out those I have no interest in seeing behind closed doors.  It has been my long time practice to ignore those who ask for BBFS, BBGREEK (unprotected anal penetration) and the like, and to save their phone numbers to my phone under DNB (do not book) so I can avoid their communications in future- no harm, no foul and no one even knew about my doing that until my writing it here just now...

If ever someone requests unsafe sex during an encounter with me, the session is stopped and client is asked to leave my location immediately.  The reason for this is not only one of health and safety; but also because it shows a lack of respect towards both me as a woman and also to the client himself, alongside any partner he might have in his life.  Any attraction or respect I may have had for the client in addition to my overall comfort level with him is lost completely following such a careless, not to mention dangerous request.  That phone number too is instantly marked DNB and any future requests shall be continuously ignored.

Clients who request or attempt PUSSY SLIDES or any kind of uncovered genital to genital/anal contact are immediately told that it is unsafe, thus it is not "allowed" and should they be respectful of that and not try again, we may continue our time together safely; however should a client not respect this boundary and continue to request or try to make uncovered contact the appointment shall be stopped immediately and his number marked DNB so that I can avoid dealing with this kind of disrespectful behaviour in future.

Clients who I have seen before (be it once, twice or a dozen plus times) who request uncovered bodily penetration (whether on the phone or in person) shall not be permitted to see me again in future- there are NO EXCEPTIONS to this rule!  I have lost quite a few clients over the years because such requests have been made, and many of those who I will no longer see were wonderful men with whom I shared an amazing time (or several).  The shame of which is that while I may hate to loose them (because we might have enjoyed each other very much) I simply cannot continue seeing them because their foolishness presents a potential health risk to me and my other clientele which I simply cannot ignore- it would be very wrong of me to do so.


I will never in my life understand the attraction some people seem to have towards such high risk behaviour; but I will always take action to guard myself against associating with those who I know are participating in such!



Today I lost another client because he asked me for BBFS while texting to book our next encounter...  I don't like that I lost this particular person because he really was a great guy with a wonderful personality and play skills that were out of this world; but safety must always come first and the reality of it is that if he's willing to do that with me he's willing to do with others and I can't expose myself to the potential dangers this man's sexual history presents...

I love my job, and I hope to be happily working in the job I love for quite some time.  I will not however keep clients who I feel pose a potential risk to my health or the health of those who I continue to see, and that gentlemen is the point of this post.

Pamela Dolly= the cleanest "dirty" girl you'll ever meet ;)

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